Thursday 24 January 2008

Of Men...


lovebirds
what is a man without his emotions. 
what is a man without prior feelings.
what is a man without hopes and dreams.
what is a man who just doesn't...

Allah said in the Quran; in Surah An-Nisa', 

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim,
in the name of Allah, the great and the merciful

Men are in charge of women, Allah hath made them to excel the other.

(An-Nisa : 34)

You see, when people see this verse, they think that men, above other being, they rule. You know, when you read the surah more, Allah explains that, men tend to get cocky. (my own words interpreted btw).

Well, im not going to beat around the bush. Allah wants men or we look at it, MAN, to look after the women. We GUYS have been made much superior than the ladies, thus we should HELP and GUIDE. Not criticise when they are trying hard to be as par as us. When they say that they are as par as us, we are losing our position. Allah has made the ladies' hearts soft and caring. Easy to give in to their emotions. Though many do not accept that fact, they believe so inside themselves. 

From my perspective, i think everyone is equal, but as a man, i have to try and make myself more superior than the ladies around me. :) and not to criticise, but to help the 'hawa's'. guide them men. help them ;)

Hilmi Ramlan

2 comments:

Nota Matahati said...

Agree with you, my friend! I was so happy to read this post, thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. Take care & have a great day!

Hilmi Ramlan said...

no problem friend ;)

i 'know' how u feel.. hahahahha :P